Hello, because after a while without posting anything, today I want to publish something that I think will be helpful. The majority of the problems we have is that but all our problems stem from the relationship we have with ourselves, with our self-esteem , whether that is false, as when falling attitudes that are related only the ego , be above the other , bad comments towards other , etc. or have a self real but low, in which the individual attitudes expressed verbally or in contempt for himself.
should be noted that self is a product of the environment in which we develop in the early stages of our lives, from the time the person begins to cherish memories in your memory, go taping it messages that come from everywhere, by others as self may not be good, maybe highly recommended a requirement to have children is to have a healthy self-esteem. Since the main source of information are parents, are after relatives, friends and a very important place goes to the television and internet. Which are not bad, but do not teach discern only impose. The most significant I find now is the concept of beauty that exists today in day, she does not have a body just as nature has given it to her age, more and smaller than size 16 who seek have the body of girls aged 13 years, the woman is imposed that it should remain as thin as possible regardless of age and well will be beautiful. This can not be true for obvious reasons, the woman's body is changing and you have a evolution that has taken thousands of years, trying to be as thin as possible and this was to have the activities that women have only makes us more hysterical and is going farther women every day less sensitive and just more vain. Raising children more physically weak and very materialistic information in his head.
Now you will be account because we can not live in peace with us, we esteem so conditioned by the information that we we bring an awful relationship with ourselves (though we egocentric ), when we poor relationship with ourselves project the bad attitudes of us in other , saying that such person is this, this person is that ... and sometimes what bothers us about the other is exactly what we usually do well the next time you get angry with someone trying to think whether we have done what the other person ever. Let
point of the article. First, we must establish that there must be relationship with ourselves, after, make this relationship is good. To this will be helpful to have a special place to be alone, a place to be yourself, even a small space, is worth it put this special place can be our room or other available corner where we can sit still and see how we are, what has happened since the last time we were in quiet, remember the happy times, etc. You have to give us a time and a place to escape the information that removes our essence and makes us uncomfortable with ourselves and therefore with other .
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